"Keep going. Try whatever works for you and baby."
Postpartum Doula (CAPPA), Baby Care Specialist
Years in Business: 1
Clients served: 2 (and growing!)
Heydi is the fifteenth doula featured for Who is Richmond Doulas. If you want more info on what the series is about, click here.
What do you love most about doula work?:
I love coming along side of parents, especially moms, to encourage and educate them in their roles. And of course I love loving on the babies!
What is your least favorite aspect about doula work?:
Wanting to spread myself too thin and say yes to every job opportunity.
Favorite thing to do when you are not on call?:
When I’m not working I most enjoy taking care of my family and home! Other things I enjoy doing are reading, walking & checking in with my parents & friends.
What does your partner think about your doula work/job?:
My husband is very proud of me for doing something that I enjoy and that is so natural to me. I love hearing him explain to people what I do.
Do you think it’s important to have your partner’s support and why?:
It’s absolutely important! Because I know my husband is 100% supportive of me and my career I can go about my days and nights with higher levels of confidence in myself.
How many children do you have?:
Three children; a 13 year old daughter and 2 sons ages 4 & 2.
What is the most difficult part of parenting regarding being a doula?
I’ve discovered that being a doula means having my phone on me a lot more than normal and being on my phone or computer more often. I’m learning to balance that while giving my kids my full attention & eye contact during our times together.
Do you have any certifications or degrees?:
Not yet but definitely working on certification. I look forward to the process and the wealth of information I’ll learn.
What drew you to doula work?:
My desire to help women be the best moms they can be. I love encouraging women. I love serving them and providing support to whatever needs they have. To me it’s very meaningful and rewarding work that doesn’t feel like work!
Do you feel that your own births colored your doula experience?
Most certainly! From the support that I lacked but also and most importantly, the support that I received during all my children’s births encourage and bring meaning to my role as a doula.
What are you future goals with doula work?:
I plan on getting certified and grow in experience. I would also love to work with young, single and/or minority moms.
Do you do anything besides doula work?:
I provide childcare to several of my friends’ children. Another way I enjoy helping moms.
All moms are heroes! But I do have to highlight my own mom who had a prolapsed uterus and other complications almost taking her life with her first child. She then went on to have a total of 9 children (one C-Section). She is definitely my birth hero!
If you could have one super power, what would it be?:
To teleport! It would be the best way to travel!
When you were a child, what did you want to grow up to be?:
For many years I wanted to be an astronaut or scientist.
Chocolate or Vanilla?:
Dogs or Cats?:
Both but dogs if I had to choose.
Favorite season and why:
I love them all! Fall I enjoy because I love the beautiful colors of leaves especially in the mountains.
What’s in your doula bag?:
Calendar/planner, books, snacks and a lot of other little things that I think I need but don’t use…yet.
Number one book moms should read before giving birth:
Oh goodness, I don’t have a book to recommend yet! Is there one such book that can prepare a woman…?
Best breastfeeding advice you offer:
Keep going. Try whatever works for you and baby.
Best labor advice you offer:
It’s a mind game; tell your body what you need it to do and be amazed.